About Stefani

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Hello, internet!

I’m Stefani, and this is my blog! πŸ™‚

I’m a sassy, self-indulging frequent flight ticket buyer from Finland and I like to share my more often than not embarrassing stories and opinions about things. Extremely dark humored and social but oh so anxious and stressed out.

Welcome to my blog, let’s be confused about life together.




  1. So I was reading your blog about FRIENDS and How I Met Your Mother and I just wanted to say that I know exactly how you feel. I mean I only read that one blog post but I just cant help but say that as much as I want the same thing, its not impossible. I have SOME friends like that but it’ll never be exactly like TV, cause well thats what it is; TV, but all in all, the more love you get, the more you’ll receive. It’s not easy, but nothing in life is. There ARE people like that out there, REAL friends, and obviously you don’t know me but I’m one of the most reliable friends anyone could ever have. And I say that confidently cause I know what you’re talking about and what you want out of it.I know its a lot to put on yourself to keep trying to reach out to people but, you’re probably targetting the wrong kind of friends, or you might be picky. I dont know a thing about you so I obviously don’t have much of a reference point. I’m 26 and male and I’ve been coping with loneliness and feeling abandonment for some time now and I just want you to know that you’re not alone in the world. I mean I’m probably still going through it, but the more you care about people, the more that you’ll filter out one really amazing person to care about you. Again I dont really know the details but I hate when I see people sad about life and wanting the same things I do. I like to help people, or at least talk them through things. I’m by no means an expert or anything, just a regular guy, but I just wanna say that you’re not alone in this.

  2. Hey Stefani,
    I stumbled on to your page randomly while researching Finnish language. Ive been living with my boyfriend (who’s from Espoo) here in Toronto, Ontario and looking into moving back to Espoo in 2014… trying to brush up on all things Finnish…. i have a looooong way to go. The most intimidating thing is not speaking the language… or knowing anyone… he tries to teach me but its not working so well (he’s lived in canada for 10 years now… slowly losing it) Would be cool to connect with someone who’s over there before i make a big move to a foreign country!… email me or add me to facebook dame_carolyn@hotmail.com, would love to hear from you!

  3. Well right now I am living in Bulgaria to finish my last school year, but I am going back in june/july of 2013 πŸ™‚ Don’t be afraid, it’s going to be MUCH easier for you (the moving, I mean), you have a finnish boyfriend after all and he’s not going to leave you hanging. You’re going to do just fine – trust me! πŸ™‚

  4. Stef, can you contact me when you have a few mins ? My girl is in Plovdiv and I need to get her here, SOON…Please get back to me..

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